When Venus is in the constellation of Scorpio her expression is intense and intimate. Go deep or go home is her motto!! When she is transiting the constellation of Scorp we are invited to claim our sexual sovereignty, sensuality, our depth, our shadows, our inherited beliefs around relationships, the occult, sex, magick, alchemy, transformation & death. Part of this process is seeing the things we would prefer to hide from the public eye, from our beloved or potential partners & from ourselves… Insert lots of ‘fuckkkkk I just said/did/thought that’ moments! Karmic and ancestral relationship patterning is coming to the light so we can level up & love the shit out of ourselves and others on a whole new level! Shadows and light baby, no ones perfect, its time to love the whole picture, not just the pretty bits.
Shadow work is key with Venus in Scorp. By feeling the feelings as they come up, without deeming them as right or wrong, good or bad. They are just energy in motion, a response to a perception or an external influence. This is what this post is allll about, perception, external influences, preconditioning & freedom through awareness. Venus in Scorpio season is where we step into psychic sovereignty on a whole new level. We learn to drive the ship through the storms, rather than being washed around by the waves of external influences. The only thing we can truly control is our response to external influences and our perception therein.
During Venus in Scorpio season, we will naturally begin to notice our obsessive tendencies, our escapisms, our fears and our control behavior. She gives us the fire of mars to just be gutsy AF about being all that we are and owning our imperfections. Paired with the transformation & death that Pluto brings to alchemise IN the underworld of ourselves.
We are spiritual beings having a human experience after all… We didn’t come here to ascend human conditioning, we came to master it, to own it, to find the kink in the darker aspects of consciousness, to play, to have fun, and to wholeheartedly intimate with life itself. Emotional maturity is being in mastery, not in denial of one’s feelings. We can be committed to our super humanness while simultaneously loving the shit out of our shadows. Thats the whole point. Our shadows are not to be treated as a problem to solve. How much can you love what you perceive to be unlovable? Venus is sitting with Pluto in the underworld, Hades himself saying “how much will you choose to love this girlfriend?’
Grab your journal & let’s have a look at what is hidden under the surface::
journal prompts for freedom of sexual expression and autonomy
What are your guilty pleasures?
What are you secretly yearning for but are too afraid to admit out loud?
Our perceptions about sex and intimacy are being re-evaluated. We are being asked to look at the narrative beneath the voice of the good girl/boy/person, the logical mind, and the mental gibberish. Take a moment to free write, no filter!
What is hidden beneath ‘social correctness’ when it comes to sex, love, and intimacy? What do YOU believe about sex, love, and intimacy?
If you were not worried about hurting/offending/upsetting/disappointing another person’s feeling what would you choose? What do you really want?
Scorpio shows us our patterning. We have all been taught ways of relating in relationships that are co-dependent/avoidant and unhealthy. Many family units consist of one person/caregiver who is completely selfless and another whose needs and moods are the central focus of the whole family. There is power in identifying where we may be repeating old patterns or default patterns of reactivity.
Perhaps you have a learned behavior of cutting and running as soon as you slightly catch a whiff of rejection? Perhaps you know you’re settling for abusive toxic behavior but you’re frozen with the fear of abandonment? OR, more commonly, social ideals that equate being in a relationship with success are really glitching you out and creating comparison paralysis.
What is comparison paralysis? It’s when we compare ourselves to the lives of other people and hate on ourselves, retreat, go into creative contraction and stop doing the thing we love based on the narrative we are telling ourselves about other people’s lives. My friends, no one’s lives look like they do on socials. Guarantee’s the couple at the park with the Colgate smile and the chunky sexy ute/truck are going through their own version of shit soup. The truth is we don’t know that what our brains are telling us about their lives is true (that’s our perception). And there’s a good chance that they are either working through it or indulging in 500 ways to shove down the guilty pleasures they dare not speak about. Too shit scared to bring it to light coz it doesn’t fit the poster image of what we are supposed to want, desire, look like and feel like when we are big kids.
The habit of measuring our sense of self, based on external images that look like success, is a self-destructive pattern that is calling your attention. The ripple effect is to then shut down and go into contraction professionally, creatively, and sexually because our lives don’t look like other people!!! We are really just robbing ourselves and our relationships of their unique and true gifts. All of this is based on societal/familial conditioning:: AKA someone else’s plan for you.
It doesn’t have to be a real thing, that’s what I”m here for to help you pop some of those pockets of consciousness that keep you choosing people who dull your shine, or choosing the daily ‘hate on self scroll’. Ready for your upgrade bebeee? Keep reading …
My friend you are unique, you have a unique set of digits in your dna, your consciousness, your astrology, your genetic blueprint. No one can tell you what your desires SHOULD be, this is where venus in Scorpio comes in to assist us on our evolutionary journey. She comes to illuminate what’s hidden and bring it to light. So let’s get kinky about it, explore some edges of our consciousness, and find the tools to do that in the bedroom with our beloved, or in the bedroom with ourselves.
How is your sexual self-care practice? Even if you are partnered a daily sexual self-care practice is so important. It doesn’t mean orgasming every day, it means including your lady landscape and your sexual empowerment in your daily rituals. You are responsible for being turned on, no one else (that’s a whole other workshop). Are you owning your pleasure and stirring the cauldron of arousal in the secret place where it’s just you and consciousness itself? Are you having a romance with your own sexuality when no one else is around?
I know, lots of thought-provoking questions right? That’s Venus in Scorpio, she loves to upset the apple cart. She comes to challenge Eve to eat the whole goddam apple in the garden of Eden. To eat from the tree of knowledge so we can navigate our way out of this slumber of fuckwittery we have found ourselves in. Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful for Eve, at least she had the guts to take a bite out of the apple! She knew (cos she’s intuitive AF, she’s a woman) that she needed that knowledge, her womb was pulsing with creation itself guiding her towards her unlimited self.
Above below within, Eve could feel the call to remember, through the pulse of her pussy and her pleasure, to rebirth through her womb. She wasn’t weak, she was a sacred rebel!
Eve knew that the tree of life is where it’s at, the knowledge of the entire universe, the key to her freedom & the freedom of the children of earth too!!! Her intuition and her sexual power allured her, not her sin.
Did you know that the word sin means ‘separation from God’? Is it true that we can be separated from God? Or separated from Goddess? Beautiful Eve took a bite of the apple and the sons and daughters of earth had the chance to no longer live in sin (separation) because they had the knowledge to reactive their infinite sovereignty and potential. If it wasn’t for Lilith (the first mother depicted as the snake in the garden) we would all be asleep to the knowledge separation from Creator is a man-made idea, created to disempower and control the masses!!! Rely on a god outside of yourself and do everything you can to get browny points or you will live in eternal separation???!!! Ummm really? Was it the serpent that deceived her, I’m pretty sure she saved her… And this is where the Daughters and Sons of Lilith rise and claim the gifts of our foremothers.
The truth is that it is not possible to be separate from consciousness (god/dess) unless we are preoccupied with our mind and ruled by our emotions. When rules and fear and dominion have more of a say on our lives than our ability to walk in self-mastery then we are living in a state of separation from source energy, source energy has not separated from us, it’s not possible. When we are in fear and contraction in our relationships, we literally forget that we are all aspects of the god/dess consciousness. The only thing that is creating separation between us/goddess/or the other, is the thought stream and the beliefs that bind us from the Great Love of the Universe.
So here we are Venus in Scorpio, through the womb and the power of the pussy, alchemizing all that no longer serves, taking back our sovereignty giving him back his/story and collectively rewriting our new story.
The matrix is falling. The patriarchy’s time is up. The sons and daughters of Lilith are standing tall like a tree, waking up inside of this co-dependant matrix woven through the mind of Julius Cesar and the men & women who served him. They created empires, and now the empire is falling. And so are the relationships that live in a state of fear, you against me, us against them. We are one, we are in this together whether we like it or not. And Lady Venus in Scorpio is revealing the shit show right now. Inviting us to walk in union with Divine Love, having compassion, and giving ourselves permission to unravel toxic relationship patterns that are not aligned with unity consciousness.
:: Venus In the Underworld ::
23rd of October Venus enters Scorp
She sits with Hades in the underworld of herself, making conscious the unconscious patterns and doing the shadow work. <<::Preparing for rebirth through the path of surrender::>> This is the ‘death phase’ of the birth, life, death and rebirth cycle.
Venus begins her Evening Star phase:: Wise Grandmother Goddess Self
December 01 2022 to August 18th 2023
More on Venus’s Evening Star Journey in my next post. Until then, if you need support or wish to know how Venus in Scorpio is affecting you personally, book a sovereignty session here
I’m here to support you to thrive as we priestess the new paradigm into being. Sovereignty sessions assist in breaking co-dependant & toxic relationship patterns. Amazing, healthy relationships are our birthright, its my job to help you shift your internal matrix so you can stand strong in the world and be wholeheartedly YOU in your relationships.
Everything I teach has been handed to me through mentors in verbal traditions and channeled from my ancestors as they have visited me. I have over 26 years of experience as a channel & healer, 500 hrs yoga teacher training, red tent facilitation, Tarot, Relationship Mentoring, the creatress of the dream weavers astrology calendar, and the sovereign woman temple journey. Book a session with me here to find out if we are a fit to work together, I have 2 openings for temple mentorship in November xx
So much love xx
Jadee Boom Stix
The sovereign woman temple is a deep dive into the ancient feminine arts, earth-based spirituality practices, womb alchemy, the study of the celestial bodies, consciousness upgrades, sexual sovereignty, and co-dependency unravel. As well as many other wonderful and magical witchy things xx